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The first cold splash on an idealised notion of friendship is the data showing that only about half of friendships are reciprocal. This is shocking to people, since research confirms that we actually assume nearly all our friendships are reciprocal.

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This is probably due to the unpredictability of these relationships, which leads us to be vigilant: Will Jen ruin Christmas this year? Ambivalent relationships have also been associated with increased cardiovascular reactivity, greater cellular ageinglowered resistance to stress, and a decreased sense of wellbeing.

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Loneliness is as painful as extreme thirst or hunger. Her work has appeared in Discover and Scientific American Mindamong others. She is the author of Friendfluence